I have found my sexual needs growing and changing over the past few years. I am interested in finding out how far i will go.I am not interested in people who want to occasionally play at dom. I am looking for someone with whom I may establish the trust it takes to submerge yourself in this. I have some questions which may lead you to what I am looking for: 1. Do you think of bdsm as a lifestyle? 2. How long have you been involved? 3. Are you married or otherwise attached? 4. What level are you looking for (once a week, more often than once a week, less than once a week)? 5. Will you have a normal relationship with this person outside of the bedroom or are you only looking for someone to play with? 6. What is the essence of domination and submission to you? 7. Describe some of the things you and your partner might explore. If you are playing...I am not or your woman but I wish you the best in finding her.